I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been asked, “Why is special/inclusive education or women’s well-being so important to you?” It’s an inquiry that often feels intrusive and tempts the response, “Do you have a reason it should not be? If yes, then you tell me right away.” Though this is never the response given, let’s take a moment to consider why causes matter to all of us, including the interviewer themselves. By shifting our perspective, we can engage in more meaningful conversations about the importance of causes that resonate with our hearts.
People support causes for various reasons. From moral to religious to social justice motives, the underlying drive is often linked to the desire to create positive change and make a meaningful impact in the world. However, when we delve into the personal motivations behind a cause, we unintentionally shift the focus away from the cause itself. Consider this example: Assuming I experienced the loss of a pregnancy due to inadequate healthcare, and as a result, made it my life’s mission to improve maternal health. Though my personal loss fuels my passion, the core issue lies within the flawed healthcare system. As much as I am willing to dedicate myself to maternal health as a cause, however, I may be unwilling to share my personal story.
I acknowledge the emotional power of personal stories, particularly when rallying support for a cause. Personal stories can be impactful and serve as a catalyst for change. Sharing experiences can also help raise awareness and inspire others to join the cause. However, they shouldn’t overshadow the larger objective of tackling the underlying problem and we must strike a balance. Let’s ask ourselves whether an issue necessitates an emotional connection to be effectively addressed. Instead of focusing solely on why it matters to an individual, let’s inquire about why a cause is important in general. This empowers people to evaluate the cause based on its inherent value and decide whether to join the movement. More importantly, it empowers the interviewee to choose whether or not they want to share their personal story. After all, it is THEIR STORY.
By reframing the question of why causes matter, we empower ourselves to deepen our understanding, make informed decisions, and take action for lasting change, championing the causes we hold dear.
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